the rhondel
say what:jawdrop:
So true that there should be co-operation in the household. And certain things should be expected. But there are exceptions here......
1) He's 21
2) He is buying his own home
3) We are staying with him "rent free" due to the situation at our apartment, which by the way we are still paying rent at..but just can't live at and are in the process of moving out of to our own place (waiting for the lease to come up).
4) My mom has had 2 strokes, which means she needs a caregiver, your's truly has had that job since 1986
5) My other son is autistic, which means my oldest son and I both have our hands full, 24/7
6) I have always appreciated my oldest volunteering his time when I need to get out, but I never..and I repeat...never requested that he be responsible for those I am responsible for. He was able to live his childhood as a child, not as someone who has had to take on adult responsibilities. And at his present age, I think it's a bit too late for me to "start" making demands.
7) My oldest son sometimes works 20 or more hours overtime in any given week, he deserves his days and nights off
Which leads to this statement....when it really matters, he's there. When he needs his time, I am indeed understanding of that.
It takes a team effort day to day. And that's how things are. We are a team, a family team.
And as far as taking away his car keys.......what are you thinking?

Keep him from driving his pride and joy? That'll surely get me kicked to the curb!
All is well the rhondel....We may get a chance to go fishing later this evening. I do appreciate those times when I can get out, even if I have to take along my youngest one, I don't mind sharing the space. It's relaxing for the both of us.